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So, coming back from vacation, I had an unacceptable amount of complaints about petty meanness on the board while I was gone, and several of the complaints were from people that don't normally complain.  This is not MM, and while I am generally against censorship because we are adults, there is a time when the meanness and nastiness cross over into the realm of trolling - posting nasty things for no other purpose than to be nasty and cause discord.  

It is going to stop.  NOW.  

As a reminder from the rules - 

 

TROLLING. Trolling is against the rules basically on every message board and this one included.

It appears we need a clarification of what that means on this board. 



What is trolling? To me - Trolling is the attempt to derail conversations with bitter, obnoxious and/or mean comments directed at other posters rather than discussing the topic. 

According to the internet - 

In Internet slang, a troll (/ˈtroʊl/, /ˈtrɒl/) is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people, by posting inflammatory,[1] extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a newsgroup, forum, chat room, or blog) with the deliberate intent of provoking readers into an emotional response[2] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion,[3] often for their own amusement.

 

This will not be a place where you come to take out your personal issues on others, and it is not a place where non-stop meanness is going to be tolerated.  We are grown-ups here, start acting like it. 



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And furthermore - do not bait people, and then complain when they respond. You don't get to be nasty and then play victim.

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What about fancy lures?

Like that wiggle one that glows in the dark?

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You mean like this one?

 

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Yes!

Er... I mean no!

P. Sherman Wallaby Way, Sydney!

I remembered!

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lilyofcourse wrote:

Yes!

Er... I mean no!

P. Sherman Wallaby Way, Sydney!

I remembered!


 42 P Sherman Wallaby Way, Missy!

 

And perhaps we shouldn't joke on Mom's Mad thread.



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You're not the boss of me!


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Some people see "nastiness" in any disagreement. If you don't hip hooray their opinions and life choices, then you are "mean".

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Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Some people see "nastiness" in any disagreement. If you don't hip hooray their opinions and life choices, then you are "mean".


 I am not one of those people.  I am able to discern discussion from displays of immature idiocy.  This thread is about the latter and what you consider nastiness is not up for debate.  



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Geez I took a weeks vacation and missed the nastiness. I'm just glad it wasn't me involved...

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There was a letter? I missed it too.

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Tignanello wrote:

There was a letter? I missed it too.


 ?????



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Tig ~

It was "latter" not "letter", referring to displays of immature idiocy.



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Oops. My bad. Thank you.

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To be honest folks, the constant bickering is why I don't come here as often as I might.

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Cheerios4606 wrote:

To be honest folks, the constant bickering is why I don't come here as often as I might.


 This.  It's hard to say anything without being jumped on one way or another.  I find myself taking more and more board breaks because I just don't like being hammered 5 ways from Sunday for expressing a viewpoint.

And the threads here are mainly political which (1) doesn't interest me so I don't read them or (2) designed to inflame one side or the other.



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Well, I for one, have found the constant trolling - starting "discussions" or making comments for no other reason than to fight - to be tiresome.

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I missed the drama. Not sure I want to know either, but yeah, I get tired of the constant bickering as well.

We have enough IRL to deal with without the board adding stress.

I probably shouldn't have commented since I'm posting in the blind.

What thread (s) should I go back and read?

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Well, here is to us all getting back on track and playing nice in the sandbox.

 

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just Czech wrote:

I missed the drama. Not sure I want to know either, but yeah, I get tired of the constant bickering as well.

We have enough IRL to deal with without the board adding stress.

I probably shouldn't have commented since I'm posting in the blind.

What thread (s) should I go back and read?


 It's an ongoing issue of snide comments on just about any thread, not one thread in particular. 



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I'm not going to go hunting then. I check the daily and that's about all I have time for when I do get time to log in.

Sigh, life is getting the best of me when I don't have time for this board.

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Lawyerlady wrote:

Well, I for one, have found the constant trolling - starting "discussions" or making comments for no other reason than to fight - to be tiresome.


Me too. I've given up on several threads because they've gone off-topic in a bad way, changing to personal attacks.

 



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I'm thinking this doesn't really need to be stickied for the time being.

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Lawyerlady wrote:

I'm thinking this doesn't really need to be stickied for the time being.


 Nope and it is wonderful!



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