DEAR ABBY: My friend recently had a baby and could really use my daughter’s old clothes, as our girls are only a year apart and I have saved practically everything. But it will cost a considerable amount to ship several boxes, and I could use the extra money myself if I sold the clothes at a tag sale.
Would I be cheap if I asked that when my friend is done with them, she donate the clothes to a charity and send me back the tax donation forms? — WANTS TO KNOW IN CONNECTICUT
DEAR WANTS TO KNOW: First, a gentle reminder that once a gift is given, it belongs to the recipient. And yes, I believe you WOULD come across as cheap.
Either give the clothes out of the goodness of your heart, knowing you will reap rewards beyond the financial — or donate them yourself.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
We did have to ship anything, but 2 of my cousins had girls as well and we were constantly swapping things between us.
Our girls were like steps for a while, and then they all were about the same size.
It was awesome being able to "shop" in each other's closets for our girls.
I think the filling one box and selling the rest is the best idea.
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