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Southern_Belle


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Sorry you had to go thru that today.

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Thanks. That part of my life is over now. I'll move on. There are better things to come. I knew today would be hard.

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I left. Sorry, if it appears I was weak but I just didn't want to look at him. He's gotten fat anyway. He didn't take anything that wasn't his and left a crap ton of stuff he didn't want anymore for me to get rid of. The only thing he wanted to take that I wouldn't let him was our dogs ashes. I told him this was her home and she was staying. I asked SS what his g/f's name was and he told me. Pretty sure he's dating a childhood friend that he dated for a short time before. He said she was horrible in bed. LOL I'll laugh if he's dating her. It won't last if it's her. I can't believe he moved from Texas to Mississippi and left his son behind for a woman. Cold day in hell for me. BFF, or BF, stayed an extra day to be with me. We went out for a long drive. I cried a bit in the car. I don't want him back but the finality of it all really hit home. And coming back in my home to see glaring open spaces was hard. I'm glad it's over but really sad that 11 years of my life is down the drain for some ho. Want to hear the irony of it all? When we got together his stuff was still at his ex wife's house. I drove him, in his car, to the Uhaul place and dropped him off so he could go load up all of his stuff and head home. I drove home in his car. LOL Today his new g/f dropped him off at the Uhaul place in his car and he she headed back home. He came to his now ex's place to load up his stuff and drive it back to her house. Wow how history repeats itself.

Am I wrong for hoping karma bits his in his ass?

 No not a Ho but a wandering eye and someone that was and is an alpha male. You never recognized that, I did.

 I always liked that he was a take charge kind of guy.  It was comforting to have that to depend on.  He always snapped into action when something happened.  He always seemed to know what to do.  But towards the end it became more of it's my way or the highway kind of thing.  I know this sounds really stupid but I didn't realize how bad my marriage was until it was gone.  Until I stopped hanging on to trying to make it better and really looked at how bad it had become.  The first time BFF gave me a hug and kiss and let me cry I realized how little contact, support, and love had been there for quite some time.



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Momala


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NJN ~
Glad you have this behind you.
Wouldn't now be a great time
to re-decorate? Just a few
little changes, but enough to
show that this is now YOUR
space!



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Momala wrote:



NJN ~
Glad you have this behind you.
Wouldn't now be a great time
to re-decorate? Just a few
little changes, but enough to
show that this is now YOUR
space!

 I don't know.  I had planned on staying here but BFF and I might move.



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lilyofcourse


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Doesn't matter if you move or not.

Some new throw pillows, replace a picture on the wall, get a new set of dishes. Just something that screams THIS IS MINE !

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Southern_Belle


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New curtains!
Something you wanted but he didn’t like!


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Southern_Belle wrote:

New curtains!
Something you wanted but he didn’t like!

 Yes, do You still have your wedding ring? If so take it to the jewelers that can reset your stones to either a necklace or a different ring set.  



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Tignanello wrote:
I know what to do_sometimes wrote:
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Well. I guess you should start packing up his stuff. All of it. Because how do you know what he wants and doesn't? Best to pack up all his crap (all mixed up so he can't just leave a pile bc he doesn't know what's in it). His problem. Not yours. But also, Lindley an dothers are right. Don't leave. If you do he'll take anything within his reach. I once had a roommate move out and I was always pulling stuff out of her boxes and putting them back where they belonged. She tried to take a ton of my stuff.

As revenge I took her vodka, poured it into a different container and filled the bottle back up with water. And then put it in her box.

 Once she was gone did you drink the Vodka toasting her?

 And laughed and laughed and laughed.

 



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